tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8576405994749856863.post4090113168807022597..comments2023-03-31T06:44:15.094-05:00Comments on The Mama Life: Ah, The Good LifeMiss Montezhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11189978567246275580noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8576405994749856863.post-47004567502363156262010-11-17T22:27:42.149-06:002010-11-17T22:27:42.149-06:00Yeah, I am really not that worried about it being ...Yeah, I am really not that worried about it being spotless either. Two full time students with two young kids, I understand that it is never gonna happen and I am really ok with it. However, our house was beyond an acceptable mess. And I felt like it was always on me to take care of everything. Now that we have divided up tasks, I don't have to worry about his stuff. And I don't have to resent Steve when I feel like he is not doing enough. This semester has been an adjustment for us, but I think we are finally getting the hang of things. It was pretty bad for a minute there, but we are definitely moving towards a better, healthier relationship. We have only been on this system for a week, but it has made a huge difference in the way I feel about my life. It is amazing how just having some support has changed my whole outlook!Miss Montezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11189978567246275580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8576405994749856863.post-83852544393045416122010-11-16T22:27:43.667-06:002010-11-16T22:27:43.667-06:00We struggle with this too, but things have been ge...We struggle with this too, but things have been getting a bit better. We seem to have reached a rhythm over the past few days where if I start a task, he'll finish it. I load the dishwasher....he unloads. He washed laundry....I fold. It really helps to keep the momentum going. I've also come to grips with the fact that with two students who both have full time jobs, our house isn't going to be spotless for a while. Oh well. It is what it is.astudyincurveshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09134009415462718096noreply@blogger.com